Trust is the catalyst of LOVE

TRUST
Pronunciation: /trʌst/

defination according to oxford dictionary:
noun
[mass noun]
1. firm belief in the reliability, truth, or ability of someone or something: relations have to be built on trust.
[count noun]
2. Law an arrangement whereby a person (a trustee) holds property as its nominal owner for the good of one or more beneficiaries: a trust was set up.

verb
[with object]
1. believe in the reliability, truth, or ability of: I should never have trusted him.

Trust is simple yet complicated.
A stranger asked you for direction because he trusted that you could give him the correct direction. You gave some money to the old lady begging around the food court because you trusted her that she doesn't have the ability to work and doesn't have anyone supporting her. These are the simple trusts that you don't even realize you are having them.

Trust is an important element in a relationship, the most basic trust is trusting your partner. We learn trust in our relationship, trust is built when your partner consistently keep their agreement. Most people doesn't trust their other half as their promises are usually not clearly stated or assumed. The other reason is that many people make agreements which they can't really keep. Hence, trust is betrayed when the agreements between the couple are not kept, causing lack of trust.



Many couples never make it past the most basic layer of trust in a relationship, which is trusting your partner. So learn how to trust your partner and also yourself in order to experience a romantic relationship and live happily ever after. :)



Start to learn how to trust yourself, others and your life deeply in order to live a better and happy life.


* pictures are taken from google, definition is taken from oxford dictionary and article referred from galtime.

xoxo
Jenny

我恨我愛你

My friend feels that my boyfie is quite similar to 林欣甫, she says at the first sight on 林欣甫, she thought of my boyfie. She said not the face of course, is the feel.... >.<

current favorite song in my playlist, 我恨我爱你, I think is the lyrics plus his sound and the way he sings that melted my heart, it's very touching and full of feelings, I really like it a lot!

我恨我愛你

作詞：鄭淑妃
作曲：陳達偉
編曲：Terence Teo

面帶微笑離開你懷裡　我聽天由命
最後一張王牌在手裡　二選一的機率
不能放縱愛你　就放過自己

愛情已經過了甜蜜期　多說也是無益
愛不愛我已經沒關係　一點小傷而已
你可以很放心　我不會為了留你 假裝可憐兮兮

都怪我太不爭氣　我恨我愛你
Oh~ 我愛你　只是因為你是你

Oh~ 我恨你
你有我看也看不清的小聰明

你有我說也說不完的壞脾氣
你有我數也數不盡你的　新戀情

你有我看也看不清的小聰明
你有我說也說不完的壞脾氣
你有我數也數不盡你的　新戀情　沒關係

我有你拿也拿不走的舊回憶
我可以一個人安靜的忘記你
我恨你最後那一句～　我愛你

xoxo

Jen

the photographer who follows his love everywhere.

This photographer I followed on instagram has an unique and interesting way to document his vacation with his love. Here are some of his photos:

follow me to Austria

 follow me to the sky

follow me to venice

follow me to zaragoza

follow me to revello

follow me to moscow metro

follow me to Singapore

follow me to Hong Kong

follow me to HK Disneyland

follow me to bali rice field

follow me to the school tree

follow me to Berlin

follow me to Hong Kong

follow me to London

and my favorite photo:

follow me to Bali

His girlfriend has a perfect body shape!!!

Okay, time to get back to my studies.....

Here's the official link of the photographer Murad Osmann.

*all photos are courtesy of Muradosmann's instagram.

xoxo

Jenny

A sore biochemistry story.

The story is about a mRNA, who felt lonely. So he pulled over a ribosome to translate himself a protein for company.

He said to the protein: Hi, I'm your template.
"Hi, I'm RNase." The protein replied.

There was silence for a very short while, and the mRNA continued: Never mind, I won't live for long anyway. Why not we spend some time together?
"Ok." The protein said.

Then they stood side by side for a while. Suddenly the protein said: Actually I'm not RNase yet.
mRNA: Er.
Protein: I'm now just a polypeptide.
mRNA smiled.
Protein: But I'll become real RNase very soon.
mRNA: It's ok. Eventually I'll die anyway.

Protein stayed close to mRNA. She slowly began to twist, fold and make up herself. She looked more and more like a real RNase. Meanwhile, the mRNA started to degrade.
Protein: I think I'd better leave, maybe you can live longer without me.
mRNA: Don't, don't leave. I have something to tell you.
mRNA: You know, I used to have a template as well, his name is DNA.
Protein: Where is he now?
mRNA: He has been sleeping for very long time. His promoter was switched off.
Protein: Who did that? Will he ever wake up again?
mRNA: It was me.
And then he smiled: But he will wake up. As long as I'm gone, he'll wake up.
mRNA continued: I remembered the time I was just transcribed, the DNA said to me, hi, I'm your template. I said, hi, I'm mRNA. Then he smiled and said, nice to meet you. Then he slowly fell asleep.

Protein didn't say anything.
"I missed him a lot." mRNA's voice started to fade, "I'm vanishing. If he wake up, and happen to meet you, would you say hi to him one more time for me?"
And then the mRNA was degraded.

============================================

DNA slowly woke up and saw a little protein standing by, looking at him carefully.
Protein: Hi, I am RNase.
DNA: Hi, I am DNA.
Protein: Hi.
Protein: This second Hi, is from mRNA.

DNA remembered, last time before he fell asleep, he just transcribed a mRNA, but he only said a hi before he fell asleep.
DNA: Where is the mRNA now?
Protein replied without an answer: mRNA said he missed you so much.
DNA smiled: I miss him as well.
Protein: He has already degraded.
…

Protein: But sometimes I would rather be like him.
DNA: Why?
Protein looked at DNA for seconds: Because you miss him as well.
Protein felt wet suddenly, he cried.....and the he hydrolyzed.

======================================

DNA finally transcribed another mRNA.
DNA: Hi. I am your template.
mRNA: Hi. I am mRNA.
DNA looked at him, softly said: You look like him, actually exactly the same.
mRNA: Who?
DNA: Oh, another mRNA I transcribed last time.
He paused and said: You two look just the same.....why......why am I still missing him so much?.....
DNA closed his eyes again...........

======================================

If we can only encounter each other rather than stay with each other, maybe it's better to just be an intron?






Reference:

translated from "Salome, http://hi.baidu.com/salome_cfiwolf/blog/item/14b219bc062a300618d81fc2.html"

xoxo Jen xoxo

experience the l.o.v.e.

有位心理学家曾写道，一个成熟称得上真爱的恋情必须经过四个阶段，那就是：
共存 　　
反依赖 　　
独立 　　
共生
之间转换所需的时间不一定，因人而易。
　
第一个阶段：共存。
这是热恋时期，不论何时何地总希望能腻在一起。 　　

第二个阶段：反依赖。
等情感稳定，一方想多一点时间做自己想做的事，这时另一方就会感到被冷落。 　

第三个阶段：独立。
这是第二个阶段的延续，要求更多独立自主的时间。 　

第四个阶段：共生。
这时新的相处之道成形，你们已经成为最亲密的人。
你们在一起相互扶持、一起开创属于你们人生。
你们在一起不会互相牵绊，而会互相成长。
他（她）就像是你的亲人。
　　
但是，好多人都通不过第二或第三阶段，选择分手。　　
其实很多事只要好好沟通就会没事，可是想太多和任性就是无法避免。
　　
世界上遇到唯一的你多么不容易，能不能不要轻言放弃。

你发现了吗？
你们本没有相同之处，外表不相像，性格也是南辕北辙，
但是相爱然后在一起，
日复一日，年复一年，
你会惊讶你的眼睛竟有点像他的眼睛。
他的微笑竟也有点像你的微笑。
你们走路的步伐变得相似。
你们说话的语气也愈来愈像。
你们爱喝同一杯饮料。❤
你们的口头禅变得一样。
你们总能猜到对方下一句话是什么。
原来我们会变成我们所爱的人。 　
　你在不知不觉中让他改掉了他爱皱眉的坏习惯。
这个改变，或许连他自己也不曾察觉。 　　
他在不知不觉中让你变得做事不再马马虎虎。
你差点认不出自己。
会在不知不觉中逐渐变成对方理想中的人，
这种改变，绝对不是刻意的。
两个人相处时间越久，气质也越相近，
有一天，你惊讶地发现，
这样的你们多么默契。
或许再也遇不到这样的感情。
深深爱着一个人的时候，你原来真的会一点一点失去自己，
可是为什么你还会觉得快乐呢。
大概是因为你在失去的同时，也赚了，
你把他的气质和他的微笑都赚回来了。


Suddenly think of this article.
Sorry to my dear,
My attitude to you was seriously bad since July.
once I came to NUS, new environment, new live, new friends and everythings are new. I was busy with all the orientation stuffs, activities and also group supper. I couldn't online and don't have time to online, once I got back to my room,it's already midnight or past midnight then I'll just bath and sleep.
It's even worse when the semester starts, I started to busy with my hall activities, sport trainings every monday to wednesday night, meetings and also suppers.
whenever you find me, I just simlpy responded with short replies. Sorry, I know you felt awkward but still I treated you the same way everytime you find me.
to be honest, I lost my care and love to you for that moment. I feel that I couldn't hang onto this long distance relationsip anymore, I need someone beside me, I need someone to lean on, but I couldn't have all these in our ldr, for once, I feel like giving up and doubt about our relationship. I'm sorry :(
Yet, we hang on to each other and you never give up on me.
I realized I'm trying to be independent all the while since I was here in NUS, hence I tend to ignore you,sorry. But then, I found out that I still need you, I'm tired of trying-to-be-independent me, I couldn't stand the days being alone, strong and independent, I still need you. Then the images of our memories came across my mind, from the days in 4s9, maple story, gatherings, apartment stays until now....
I found my feelings and love back again :)

Here I am, to share my thoughts, just like what I posted,
"don't give up easily, hang on and you will be suprised by how far you can go.."

Luckily we both never give up and you never force me when I refuse to answer some of your questions.
Sometimes, we just need times to chill and gain back the feelings, don't give up easily, if not, I think we might ended up at stage 2.

老 uncle, I think we are at stage 4 now, right?
:p

Waynie, thank you for caring about our relationship and also thanks that you never force me also.. I'm sorry. :(
But we are fine now, don't worry :)
bout you and KT, I think I don't have to worry since you both are ssssoooo SWEET nowadays! keep it on and don't be like me ok?
love ya! muahxx!

to all the couples in the world, don't make decisions too fast and don't give up because of small problems, give each other some times and calm down.

Best wishes to everyone!
:)












xoxo Jen xoxo

The is soooo cute!!

sharing a short clip with ya'all.

the baby is so cute,he was trying to sleep but always startled by the snoring of the guy beside him.hahaha!! XD

xoxo Jen xoxo

gossip

friend who gossip with you,

will gossip without you.

xoxo Jen xoxo

promises.

Inspired by Waynie's post.

一句：I love you Forever
对于一对热恋中的男女，这话有多重大和动听~
一旦这感情断了
那些forever也一样的~消失了
我只能说，不要随便许下承诺

如果，其中一方还那么在意它的不存在，那~为什么不要在拥有的时候珍惜呢？

很可笑，也很矛盾
真的决定了放弃，怎么还那么在乎那些承诺
可能是自私的心态吧？

感情让每个人都受伤了，也让每个人成长
就算在感情上摔了一跤
只要勇敢的爬起来
事情久了，回头一看
还真的想谢谢曾经伤害过自己的人
让我得到了教训

谢谢那些伤害过我的人 =）
我学会了如何爬起来

........

Her post is really meaningful.

She grows up alot,but I'm still the same me.

I grow up physically but not mentally,

I'm still that childish and unconsiderate.

Why?

Maybe I never get hurt,

I'm the one who hurt others ever since I'm born.

That's why I never grow up.

The past memories are hunting me,

appear like video clips in my mind,

this is killing me,

I dare not to tell you.

But I know you will forgive me.

I never grow up,until the day I get hurt in future.

and I never appreciate,

because I know you will never get angry with me for long.

I'm selfish.

I think I'm good but actually I'm not.

I think I'm kind but actually I'm not.

you are so good to me,

whatever wrong I've done will eventually become your fault.

Why?

Because I'm so selfish that I think it's not my fault.

Because I'm so selfish that I think that's nth to angry about.

Because I know you love me and you could not stand the arguement.

Because you love me.

What's appreciate?

I'm still unfamiliar with this word.

teach me pls..

or,

just hurt me.

I don't want to think like a child.

I don't want to hurt anyone anymore.

-emo post.

Jen

ended.

Finally,his 1 week holiday ended. Time flies huh? The days with him dashed away like minutes. It's so damm fast!

He is going back today. One week is not enough! There are so many things we haven't do together..

** Kites.

** back pack travel.

** Jungle tracking.

** Tropical fruit farm.

** print our couple shirt.

** talk under the moonlight.

** many many many more....

><

We have a few dates together,not luxurious dates but simple dates for just two of us.

=)

We went to jucso's popular to buy some stationary and books on Tuesday. We met sherlyn and her Wayne. She's is pretty and cute! =)

Wednesday,Secret recipe~

wuu~ We love cheese!

I'm full!!

So,I decided to take pictures~ kacau him.. ><

I love this pic!! I love him. =)

Finally we finished them.

The lagsanae was delicious! And the cakes were so nice! But too 腻,wanna vomit d. ><

Here's the kacau kacau pictures~ XD

This ends our day.

The next day,he made me a appetizer. I should call this vege-chicken-ham-rolls.

He says this dish same like 5 stars restaurant dish. ><

see the love? hehe..

He is going back after a few hours. ='(

Promises.

study hard together.

take care yourself.

have your meal on time.

Don't kacau when studying.

I'll be more hardworking.

I ❤ you.

xoxo Jen xoxo

random.

helo people~

Waynie says my blog is dead. I'm sorry lar,I really don't know what to blog about,as my life is dull and its the same after all. I'm still studying in the boring-old-secondary-school for the 7th year. S-E-V-E-N years ok? The same life style, the same classrooms,the same buildings and the same hair style + outfit. Damm boring k? Moreover,what we form sixer need to do is study STUDY and STUDY. ><

ok,stop complaining.

Do you guys know Yasmin Ahmad? I just get to know her last week,Mr Goay said about her. She was a director,a great director. Her advertisments touched everyone's heart,despite of races,etnics. Remember all those festival greetings advertisment from petronas? She directed them. =)

Here's one of them,note that little boy. He is natural and cute!!

RIP,

Yasmin Ahmad.

xoxo Jen xoxo

flowers.

my dad love gardening,so there are many plants in my garden,especially orchids.Sometimes I like to take the picture of the flowers.

Enjoy.

xoxo Jen xoxo